Confidence Building for Your Dog Part 2
Confidence Building for Your Dog Part 2
Confidence Building Exercises
In Part 1, we talked about a couple schools of thought for behavioral remediation of fearful dogs. We also gave a couple examples for each type and then discussed different considerations when selecting a method. Today we're going to talk about a few exercises you can do with your pup to build confidence.Obedience

Every dog needs at least some obedience training. I repeat, EVERY dog needs obedience training. I get called over and over again to come rehab small dogs that eventually end up biting people because they never got the correct obedience foundation to start. Just because your dog is small does not mean you can forgo doing all the necessary training to make her mentally healthy. Sure it does not hurt if Tootles jumps on you if Tootles is only 15 pounds. However it will hurt eventually when Tootles decides to reprimand you by biting you because Tootles has decided she is in charge because you failed to train Tootles properly from the onset.
OK, I will put my Sammy soapbox away. By doing obedience and demanding work from your dog you are also filling the pack leader role. The pack leader gets to dole out punishments and rewards. Your dog (unless you have a super dominant dog) does not really want to be the pack leader. They are immensely relieved when you step up and fill the roll. You must continue to do obedience to continue to keep your dog's trust in your leadership abilities. This means doing obedience work throughout the lifetime of your pet. If you let your leadership duties fall by the wayside, so will your dog's trust in your roll as pack leader and by default his confidence will wane.
Start with the basic commands that every pet dog should know: sit, stay, come, down, and heel. To learn how to teach your dog these commands, buy my book that will eventually be published, take a group class (your local AKC Club should have some), or hire a dog trainer (See Hiring a Private Dog Trainer). Or do all of these.
Then you can start adding commands such as Stand or Touch (where you teach your dog to touch his nose to your fingers). Watch Me is a good one to teach. Wait is another, for staying when the dog knows you are going to release him in a second. Around and Swing are commands to have your dog put himself into the heel. Fun commands like Roll Over, High Five, Shake, Circle, or Play Dead are also possibilities. If your dog does something cool on her own, like dancing on her two back legs or cocking her head in that adorable fashion that melts hearts, give it a word and teach her to do it on command. I once taught a mini-Aussie the heart-melting-head-tilt on the command of Cheese!
Here is another one if you want a multi-part challenge. Do a google search for freestyle if you want to see some really cool dog handling and tricks.
Obstacles
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Camp Sammy |
Obstacle work is another confidence building measure I love to do with dogs. You can check with your local AKC club for agility classes or look at local dog parks to see if they have any agility equipment. I have several of the obstacles that I made or purchased myself that I use when teaching my lessons including jumps, weave poles, and a tunnel. Make sure your dog is old enough before doing higher jumps (2 years and up) so that you do not inadvertently cause any joint damage on a pup's developing joints. Build up to off leash tackling of obstacles (in an enclosed space). You can start to build up your speed, height, and agility! Just make sure to take small steps- you do not want your pup falling off of obstacles because you could do the opposite of what you want and create more fear. Go slowly and carefully.

Field Trips

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Two of my favorite junior dog handlers at Home Depot |
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Jessie the Service Beagle Meets A Large Non-Dog (aka horse) |
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Jessie the Service Beagle meets a Dolphin at The Clearwater Marine Aquarium |
Jobs
Give your dog a job. Dog owners hear this advice all the time, but what the heck does it mean? Do you have to enroll your dog in a search and rescue club or train them to be a medical detection dog? You do not have to, but those are cool jobs for dogs. However, for the average person, that is a lot more work than is feasible. So what are some every day dog jobs?
Walking your human every day. This is the most basic dog job available. Walking your dog every day not only builds rapport (packs move together) but it is good exercise. In your mind, you are walking your dog. In your dog's mind, he or she is gently walking along with you so you do not get lost on your daily adventure. This is a very important job for a dog. So important that your dog leashes you together so you do not go wandering off.



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Whuffo lure-coursing at a local pet event... love the porta-potties in the background |

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Whuffo at Schutzhund Club loving it! |
What are some jobs that I do not recommend for your dog? Babysitting. Dogs should never be left alone with human infants- it is not fair to anyone involved. Retrieving the newspaper. Although this conjures nostalgic images of Leave-it-to-Beaver days gone by, unless you have a invisible fence, letting your dog out in your front yard off the leash to get your paper is a bad idea...and illegal if he goes dashing off your property. Getting you a beer. While this is really funny at first, it will not be funny when your dog, with his newly acquired fridge opening skills, helps himself to your leftover pizza whilst retrieving your beverage of choice. I tried to teach Whuffo to make coffee. He just goes and sits in the kitchen, which in and of itself shows his intelligence. He knows when I say that word, that is the room I go into. Dogs are amazing.
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One of Whuffo's jobs is mentoring puppies |
I am fairly certain my dog Whuffo thinks his job is to accompany me to parties and ensure that I do not do anything too stupid. He is mildly successful at this (in his defense I have a propensity for chaos and disaster), but is always a big hit with the party-goers. He soaks up the praise and attention like it's his job. It is his job. His dog job.
Conclusion

Cheers and look for Part 3 coming soon,
Sammy the Dog Trainer
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